"The future of humanity will be decided not by relationships between nations, but by relationships between women and men." D.H. Lawrence
There is a well known saying, claimed to be a Chinese curse: “May you live in interesting times.” Like it or not, we live in interesting times. Potentially we are living through the biggest transitions in decades, maybe in centuries. It's a time when everything around us is changing at a rate that can make you dizzy and it is all too easy to revert to familiar or unconscious patterns of survival as a way to cope.
But times like these can also be the most creative. We must not let it just pass without taking this opportunity for deep and lasting transformation. Our future and the future of our children depend on us.
"The future of humanity will be decided not by relationships between nations, but by relationships between women and men." D.H. Lawrence
There is a well known saying, claimed to be a Chinese curse: “May you live in interesting times.” Like it or not, we live in interesting times. Potentially we are living through the biggest transitions in decades, maybe in centuries. It's a time when everything around us is changing at a rate that can make you dizzy and it is all too easy to revert to familiar or unconscious patterns of survival as a way to cope.
But times like these can also be the most creative. We must not let it just pass without taking this opportunity for deep and lasting transformation. Our future and the future of our children depend on us.
It's time to unlearn what we have learned from generations of wounded people and come together beyond the old and outdated divides of gender relationships, sexuality, religion, race and generational traumas.
It's time to unlearn what we have learned from generations of wounded people and come together beyond the old and outdated divides of gender relationships, sexuality, religion, race and generational traumas.
Together we will break old walls & build new bridges
Together we will build bridges across gender and generational gaps and conflicts
Review the prejudices that we have about each other
Explore new ways for men and women to live and love together
Learn to move with mutual respect as evolving, sexual, and spiritually whole human beings
Through curiosity, respect, goodwill, and understanding of our differences, meet to create a new vision for the future
Together we will break old walls & build new bridges
Together we will build bridges across gender and generational gaps and conflicts
Review the prejudices that we have about each other
Explore new ways for men and women to live and love together
Learn to move with mutual respect as evolving, sexual, and spiritually whole human beings
Through curiosity, respect, goodwill, and understanding of our differences, meet to create a new vision for the future
The first online seminar of the program Meeting "The Bigger Context"
28 February 2021 start at 16:00 Eu / 15:00 Uk / 18:00 Msc
To start any movement, we need to understand the coordinates of the starting point. It is important for us to understand the context of the time in which we live, and the forces that affect us. Current global events, our personal stories and childhood traumas, social attitudes, relationships between men and women, issues of sexuality, the trauma of generations - all this has a direct bearing on us until we take an honest look at it and understand just how. Then we are free to make other choices.
The first online seminar of the program Meeting "The Bigger Context"
28 February 2021 start at 16:00 Eu / 15:00 Uk / 18:00 Msc
To start any movement, we need to understand the coordinates of the starting point. It is important for us to understand the context of the time in which we live, and the forces that affect us. Current global events, our personal stories and childhood traumas, social attitudes, relationships between men and women, issues of sexuality, the trauma of generations - all this has a direct bearing on us until we take an honest look at it and understand just how. Then we are free to make other choices.
The seminars build on each other and we highly recommend you attend all the events. However, it is possible to attend any workshop without pre-requisite of having attended the previous ones.
28 February 2021 (Sun), 2.5h start at 16:00 Eu /15:00 Uk / 18:00 Msc
Awareness of the context of the time in which we live. The influence of the private on the general and that of current global events on the life of the individual. Introduction to the main program.
Free
Meeting 2 / Me and my past
11 March 2021 (Thu), 3.5h start at 17:00 Eu /16:00 Uk / 19:00 Msc
Erasing our personal history. If we deny our stories, they define us, our decisions, and our future. When we own our stories we become the free authors of our lives.
8 April 2021 (Thu), 3.5h start at 17:00 Eu /16:00 Uk / 19:00 Msc
What does it mean to live in a patriarchal world: the splitting of the human qualities into „male and female“ and what the consequences are – what are the stereotypes we impose on men and women and force them to comply. How does sexism play out in our lives (globally/locally).
20 April 2021 (Tue), 3.5h start at 17:00 Eu /16:00 Uk / 19:00 Msc
We need to unlearn what we learned from wounded people - The violation of women and men and how it has affected the narratives we carry for mothers and daughters, fathers and sons?
6 May 2021 (Thu), 3.5h start at 17:00 Eu /16:00 Uk / 19:00 Msc
Relational grid-lock. Moving beyond stereotypical gender relationships and moving towards co-creative partnerships. where our self esteem allows partners to meet as equals in their differences while chosen boundaries protect both.
20 May 2021 (Thu), 3.5h start at 17:00 Eu /16:00 Uk / 19:00 Msc
Sexual Mirroring & dancing with Masculine and Feminine energies : what is it , how do we learn the steps and what on earth do parents have to do with it.
The seminars build on each other and we highly recommend you attend all the events. However, it is possible to attend any workshop without pre-requisite of having attended the previous ones.
Get a 10% discount by registering for the full program until 10 March 2021
28 February 2021 (Sun), 2.5h start at 16:00 Eu /15:00 Uk / 18:00 Msc
Awareness of the context of the time in which we live. The influence of the private on the general and that of current global events on the life of the individual. Introduction to the main program.
Free
Meeting 2 / Me and my past
11 March 2021 (Thu), 3.5h 17:00 Eu /16:00 Uk / 19:00 Msc
Erasing our personal history. If we deny our stories, they define us, our decisions, and our future. When we own our stories we become the free authors of our lives.
8 April 2021 (Thu), 3.5h 17:00 Eu /16:00 Uk / 19:00 Msc
What does it mean to live in a patriarchal world: the splitting of the human qualities into „male and female“ and what the consequences are – what are the stereotypes we impose on men and women and force them to comply. How does sexism play out in our lives (globally/locally).
20 April 2021 (Tue), 3.5h 17:00 Eu /16:00 Uk / 19:00 Msc
We need to unlearn what we learned from wounded people - The violation of women and men and how it has affected the narratives we carry for mothers and daughters, fathers and sons?
6 May 2021 (Thu), 3.5h 17:00 Eu /16:00 Uk / 19:00 Msc
Relational grid-lock. Moving beyond stereotypical gender relationships and moving towards co-creative partnerships. where our self esteem allows partners to meet as equals in their differences while chosen boundaries protect both.
20 May 2021 (Thu), 3.5h 17:00 Eu /16:00 Uk / 19:00 Msc
Sexual Mirroring & dancing with Masculine and Feminine energies : what is it , how do we learn the steps and what on earth do parents have to do with it.
"We delight in the beauty of the butterfly, but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty.” Maya Angelou
The imaginal cells of the caterpillar hold all the potential for the future, but initially they act separately, before combining as one to create something incredible, something so different from their previous existence that it seems magical.
These particular cells are so totally different from the caterpillar cells that the immune system thinks they are enemies and tries to get rid of them. But these new cells continue to appear, more and more of them! Pretty soon, the caterpillar’s immune system cannot destroy them fast enough and more of the imaginal cells survive. And then an amazing thing happens:
The imaginal cells start to clump together into friendly little groups, all resonating at the same frequency, passing information from one to another. Then, the clumps of imaginal cells start to cluster together inside the chrysalis until at some point, the entire long string of imaginal cells suddenly realizes all together that it is something different from the caterpillar. Something new! Something wonderful! And in that realization is the shout of the birth of the butterfly.
A great way to organize a butterfly... And a great inspiration for how we, men and women together, can co-create a totally different world, one never before seen in the evolution of humanity.
It's this transformational process “The Great Inner Re-Set” invites you to participate in.
"We delight in the beauty of the butterfly, but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty.” Maya Angelou
The imaginal cells of the caterpillar hold all the potential for the future, but initially they act separately, before combining as one to create something incredible, something so different from their previous existence that it seems magical.
These particular cells are so totally different from the caterpillar cells that the immune system thinks they are enemies and tries to get rid of them. But these new cells continue to appear, more and more of them! Pretty soon, the caterpillar’s immune system cannot destroy them fast enough and more of the imaginal cells survive. And then an amazing thing happens:
The imaginal cells start to clump together into friendly little groups, all resonating at the same frequency, passing information from one to another. Then, the clumps of imaginal cells start to cluster together inside the chrysalis until at some point, the entire long string of imaginal cells suddenly realizes all together that it is something different from the caterpillar. Something new! Something wonderful! And in that realization is the shout of the birth of the butterfly.
A great way to organize a butterfly... And a great inspiration for how we, men and women together, can co-create a totally different world, one never before seen in the evolution of humanity.
It's this transformational process “The Great Inner Re-Set” invites you to participate in.
Our team
Helena Lovendal
Facilitator and therapist
Senior psychotherapist, Sexual Grounding Therapy® Head of Education, trainer and therapist. Specialist trainer and supervisor for professionals in the field of intimate relationship and gender relations in the UK, Scandinavia, Russia, and mainland Europe. Originator of ‘Ways of Woman’ inner leadership programs for women and ‘Obsidian - Path with Heart’ , nature based teaching and retreats, and is an associate member of ‘Wisdom Weavers of the World’ and ‘Wilderness Guides Council’. Original co-founder of The Centre For Gender Psychology & Creative Couple Work (1996-2010), and Rites for Girls facilitator training ( 2017 - ). Co-author of ‘Sex, Love and the Dangers of Intimacy – a Guide to Passionate Relationships when the “Honeymoon” is over’, (2002)
She is passionate about re-connecting men and women to their natural power and beauty and their innate potentials for living wholehearted and passionate lives, enjoying loving and deeply fulfilling lives and relationships. She lives close to nature in the deep south of France and believes the future we seek lies in seeking to restore a spiritual balance through authentic connection to all of life and nature.
Professional Sexual Grounding Therapy® therapist, with a background in Gestalt and family therapy. His current interests are strongly influenced by therapies and findings of neurobiology and trauma therapy.
In his private practice there is an emphasis, next to the work with individuals, on relational work with couples and families. Leads groups and trainings for men. Runs programs to assist blended or step families, with children of different biological parents. Trainer at Zist Zentrum (Munich, Germany). Conducts groups and trainings in UK, Germany, France and Russia. Humour is an integral part of his approach to life. Happy husband and father of two young adult children.
Body and family therapist. Certified therapist in the Rebalancing method. Currently inspired by spiritual therapy and early trauma therapy. Organizes personal development trainings and professional trainings for therapists in Russia. Works individually and with groups in Russia and France.
"My passion is to help people get back into deep contact with themselves, spiritual world, and nature. To protect life, increase love in this world and create a wonderful ground for future generations."
Our team
Helena Lovendal
Facilitator and therapist
Senior psychotherapist, Sexual Grounding Therapy® Head of Education, trainer and therapist. Specialist trainer and supervisor for professionals in the field of intimate relationship and gender relations in the UK, Scandinavia, Russia, and mainland Europe. Originator of ‘Ways of Woman’ inner leadership programs for women and ‘Obsidian - Path with Heart’ , nature based teaching and retreats, and is an associate member of ‘Wisdom Weavers of the World’ and ‘Wilderness Guides Council’. Original co-founder of The Centre For Gender Psychology & Creative Couple Work (1996-2010), and Rites for Girls facilitator training ( 2017 - ). Co-author of ‘Sex, Love and the Dangers of Intimacy – a Guide to Passionate Relationships when the “Honeymoon” is over’, (2002)
She is passionate about re-connecting men and women to their natural power and beauty and their innate potentials for living wholehearted and passionate lives, enjoying loving and deeply fulfilling lives and relationships. She lives close to nature in the deep south of France and believes the future we seek lies in seeking to restore a spiritual balance through authentic connection to all of life and nature.
Professional Sexual Grounding Therapy® therapist, with a background in Gestalt and family therapy. His current interests are strongly influenced by therapies and findings of neurobiology and trauma therapy.
In his private practice there is an emphasis, next to the work with individuals, on relational work with couples and families. Leads groups and trainings for men. Runs programs to assist blended or step families, with children of different biological parents. Trainer at Zist Zentrum (Munich, Germany). Conducts groups and trainings in UK, Germany, France and Russia. Humour is an integral part of his approach to life. Happy husband and father of two young adult children.
Body and family therapist. Certified therapist in the Rebalancing method. Currently inspired by spiritual therapy and early trauma therapy. Organizes personal development trainings and professional trainings for therapists in Russia. Works individually and with groups in Russia and France.
"My passion is to help people get back into deep contact with themselves, spiritual world, and nature. To protect life, increase love in this world and create a wonderful ground for future generations."
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Некоторые действия пользователей автоматически сохраняются в журналах сервера:
- IP-адрес; - данные о типе браузера, надстройках, времени запроса и т. д.
Как используется полученная информация
Сведения, предоставленные пользователем, используются для связи с ним, в том числе для направления уведомлений об изменении статуса заявки.
Управление личными данными
Личные данные доступны для просмотра, изменения и удаления в личном кабинете пользователя.
В целях предотвращения случайного удаления или повреждения данных информация хранится в резервных копиях в течение 7 дней и может быть восстановлена по запросу пользователя.
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- для соблюдения закона, - нормативно-правового акта, - исполнения решения суда; - для выявления или воспрепятствования мошенничеству; - для устранения технических неисправностей в работе сайта; - для предоставления информации на основании запроса уполномоченных государственных органов.
В случае продажи настоящего сайта пользователи должны быть уведомлены об этом не позднее, чем за 10 дней до совершения сделки.
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- регулярное обновление служб и систем управления сайтом и его содержимым; - шифровка архивных копий ресурса; - регулярные проверки на предмет наличия вредоносных кодов; - использование для размещения сайта виртуального выделенного сервера.
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Обновления политики конфиденциальности публикуются на данной странице. Для удобства пользователей все версии политики конфиденциальности подлежат сохранению в архивных файлах.
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What information will be collected: Only information that provides the ability to support user feedback should be collected. Some user actions are automatically saved in the server logs: - IP address; - data about the browser type, add-ons, request time, etc.
How the received information is used The information provided by the user is used for communication with the user, including for sending notifications about changes in the status of the application.
Personal Data Management Personal data is available for viewing, changing and deleting in the user's personal account. In order to prevent accidental deletion or corruption of data, the information is stored in backup copies for 7 days and can be restored at the request of the user.
Providing data to third sides Personal data of users may be transferred to persons not connected with this site, if necessary: - to comply with the law, - regulatory legal act, - execution of the court decision; - to detect or prevent fraud; - to eliminate technical malfunctions in the operation of the site; - to provide information on the basis of a request from authorized state bodies.
In the event of the sale of this site, users must be notified of this no later than 10 days before the transaction.
Data security The site administration takes all measures to protect user data from unauthorized access, in particular: - regular updates of services and systems for managing the site and its content; - encryption of archived copies of the resource; - regular checks for the presence of malicious code; - use of a virtual dedicated server for hosting the site.
Changes Updates to the privacy policy are published on this page. For the convenience of users, all versions of the privacy policy must be saved in archived files.