"The future of humanity will be decided not by relationships between nations,
but by relationships between women and men."
D.H. Lawrence
but by relationships between women and men."
D.H. Lawrence
There is a well known saying, claimed to be a Chinese curse: “May you live in interesting times.” Like it or not, we live in interesting times. Potentially we are living through the biggest transitions in decades, maybe in centuries. It's a time when everything around us is changing at a rate that can make you dizzy and it is all too easy to revert to familiar or unconscious patterns of survival as a way to cope.
But times like these can also be the most creative. We must not let it just pass without taking this opportunity for deep and lasting transformation. Our future and the future of our children depend on us.
But times like these can also be the most creative. We must not let it just pass without taking this opportunity for deep and lasting transformation. Our future and the future of our children depend on us.
"The future of humanity will be decided not by relationships between nations,
but by relationships between women and men."
D.H. Lawrence
but by relationships between women and men."
D.H. Lawrence
There is a well known saying, claimed to be a Chinese curse: “May you live in interesting times.” Like it or not, we live in interesting times. Potentially we are living through the biggest transitions in decades, maybe in centuries. It's a time when everything around us is changing at a rate that can make you dizzy and it is all too easy to revert to familiar or unconscious patterns of survival as a way to cope.
But times like these can also be the most creative. We must not let it just pass without taking this opportunity for deep and lasting transformation. Our future and the future of our children depend on us.
But times like these can also be the most creative. We must not let it just pass without taking this opportunity for deep and lasting transformation. Our future and the future of our children depend on us.
It's time to unlearn what we have learned from generations of wounded people and come together beyond the old and outdated divides of gender relationships, sexuality, religion, race and generational traumas.
It's time to unlearn what we have learned from generations of wounded people and come together beyond the old and outdated divides of gender relationships, sexuality, religion, race and generational traumas.
Together we will break old walls & build new bridges
Together we will build bridges across gender and generational gaps and conflicts
Review the prejudices that we have about each other
Explore new ways for men and women to live and love together
Learn to move with mutual respect as evolving, sexual, and spiritually whole human beings
Through curiosity, respect, goodwill, and understanding of our differences, meet to create a new vision for the future
Together we will break old walls & build new bridges
Together we will build bridges across gender and generational gaps and conflicts
Review the prejudices that we have about each other
Explore new ways for men and women to live and love together
Learn to move with mutual respect as evolving, sexual, and spiritually whole human beings
Through curiosity, respect, goodwill, and understanding of our differences, meet to create a new vision for the future
The first online seminar of the program
Meeting "The Bigger Context"
Meeting "The Bigger Context"
28 February 2021
start at 16:00 Eu / 15:00 Uk / 18:00 Msc
start at 16:00 Eu / 15:00 Uk / 18:00 Msc
To start any movement, we need to understand the coordinates of the starting point. It is important for us to understand the context of the time in which we live, and the forces that affect us. Current global events, our personal stories and childhood traumas, social attitudes, relationships between men and women, issues of sexuality, the trauma of generations - all this has a direct bearing on us until we take an honest look at it and understand just how. Then we are free to make other choices.
Participation price: free
Language: English with Russian translation
The first online seminar of the program
Meeting "The Bigger Context"
Meeting "The Bigger Context"
28 February 2021
start at 16:00 Eu / 15:00 Uk / 18:00 Msc
start at 16:00 Eu / 15:00 Uk / 18:00 Msc
To start any movement, we need to understand the coordinates of the starting point. It is important for us to understand the context of the time in which we live, and the forces that affect us. Current global events, our personal stories and childhood traumas, social attitudes, relationships between men and women, issues of sexuality, the trauma of generations - all this has a direct bearing on us until we take an honest look at it and understand just how. Then we are free to make other choices.
Participation price for the first meeting: free
Language: English with Russian translation
Program and schedule
The seminars build on each other and we highly recommend you attend all the events. However, it is possible to attend any workshop without pre-requisite of having attended the previous ones.
Meeting 1 / The Bigger Context
28 February 2021 (Sun), 2.5h
start at 16:00 Eu /15:00 Uk / 18:00 Msc
start at 16:00 Eu /15:00 Uk / 18:00 Msc
Awareness of the context of the time in which we live. The influence of the private on the general and that of current global events on the life of the individual. Introduction to the main program.
Free
Meeting 2 / Me and my past
11 March 2021 (Thu), 3.5h
start at 17:00 Eu /16:00 Uk / 19:00 Msc
start at 17:00 Eu /16:00 Uk / 19:00 Msc
Erasing our personal history. If we deny our stories, they define us, our decisions, and our future. When we own our stories we become the free authors of our lives.
40 euro
Meeting 3 / Man and woman
25 March 2021 (Thu), 3.5h
start at 17:00 Eu /16:00 Uk / 19:00 Msc
start at 17:00 Eu /16:00 Uk / 19:00 Msc
How is it to live in our own male or female body. How do we identify with our gender, and how does that impact on how we relate to the other gender.
40 euro
Meeting 4 / Patriarchal world
8 April 2021 (Thu), 3.5h
start at 17:00 Eu /16:00 Uk / 19:00 Msc
start at 17:00 Eu /16:00 Uk / 19:00 Msc
What does it mean to live in a patriarchal world: the splitting of the human qualities into „male and female“ and what the consequences are – what are the stereotypes we impose on men and women and force them to comply. How does sexism play out in our lives (globally/locally).
40 euro
Meeting 5 / Trans-generational trauma
20 April 2021 (Tue), 3.5h
start at 17:00 Eu /16:00 Uk / 19:00 Msc
start at 17:00 Eu /16:00 Uk / 19:00 Msc
We need to unlearn what we learned from wounded people - The violation of women and men and how it has affected the narratives we carry for mothers and daughters, fathers and sons?
40 euro
Meeting 6 / New format of relationships
6 May 2021 (Thu), 3.5h
start at 17:00 Eu /16:00 Uk / 19:00 Msc
start at 17:00 Eu /16:00 Uk / 19:00 Msc
Relational grid-lock. Moving beyond stereotypical gender relationships and moving towards co-creative partnerships. where our self esteem allows partners to meet as equals in their differences while chosen boundaries protect both.
40 euro
Meeting 7 / Dance of male and female energy
20 May 2021 (Thu), 3.5h
start at 17:00 Eu /16:00 Uk / 19:00 Msc
start at 17:00 Eu /16:00 Uk / 19:00 Msc
Sexual Mirroring & dancing with Masculine and Feminine energies : what is it , how do we learn the steps and what on earth do parents have to do with it.
40 euro
Meeting 8 / Adult relationships
3 June 2021 (Thu), 3.5h
start at 17:00 Eu /16:00 Uk / 19:00 Msc
start at 17:00 Eu /16:00 Uk / 19:00 Msc
The missing prerequisite for adult relationships in all areas.
40 euro
Program and schedule
The seminars build on each other and we highly recommend you attend all the events. However, it is possible to attend any workshop without pre-requisite of having attended the previous ones.
Get a 10% discount by registering for the full program until 10 March 2021
Meeting 1 / The Bigger Context
28 February 2021 (Sun), 2.5h
start at
16:00 Eu /15:00 Uk / 18:00 Msc
start at
16:00 Eu /15:00 Uk / 18:00 Msc
Awareness of the context of the time in which we live. The influence of the private on the general and that of current global events on the life of the individual. Introduction to the main program.
Free
Meeting 2 / Me and my past
11 March 2021 (Thu), 3.5h
17:00 Eu /16:00 Uk / 19:00 Msc
17:00 Eu /16:00 Uk / 19:00 Msc
Erasing our personal history. If we deny our stories, they define us, our decisions, and our future. When we own our stories we become the free authors of our lives.
40 euro
Meeting 3 / Man and woman
25 March 2021 (Thu), 3.5h
17:00 Eu /16:00 Uk / 19:00 Msc
17:00 Eu /16:00 Uk / 19:00 Msc
How is it to live in our own male or female body. How do we identify with our gender, and how does that impact on how we relate to the other gender.
40 euro
Meeting 4 / Patriarchal world
8 April 2021 (Thu), 3.5h
17:00 Eu /16:00 Uk / 19:00 Msc
17:00 Eu /16:00 Uk / 19:00 Msc
What does it mean to live in a patriarchal world: the splitting of the human qualities into „male and female“ and what the consequences are – what are the stereotypes we impose on men and women and force them to comply. How does sexism play out in our lives (globally/locally).
40 euro
Meeting 5 / Trans-generational trauma
20 April 2021 (Tue), 3.5h
17:00 Eu /16:00 Uk / 19:00 Msc
17:00 Eu /16:00 Uk / 19:00 Msc
We need to unlearn what we learned from wounded people - The violation of women and men and how it has affected the narratives we carry for mothers and daughters, fathers and sons?
40 euro
Meeting 6 / New format of relationships
6 May 2021 (Thu), 3.5h
17:00 Eu /16:00 Uk / 19:00 Msc
17:00 Eu /16:00 Uk / 19:00 Msc
Relational grid-lock. Moving beyond stereotypical gender relationships and moving towards co-creative partnerships. where our self esteem allows partners to meet as equals in their differences while chosen boundaries protect both.
40 euro
Meeting 7 / Dance of male and female energy
20 May 2021 (Thu), 3.5h
17:00 Eu /16:00 Uk / 19:00 Msc
17:00 Eu /16:00 Uk / 19:00 Msc
Sexual Mirroring & dancing with Masculine and Feminine energies : what is it , how do we learn the steps and what on earth do parents have to do with it.
40 euro
Meeting 8 / Adult relationships
3 June 2021 (Thu), 3.5h
17:00 Eu /16:00 Uk / 19:00 Msc
17:00 Eu /16:00 Uk / 19:00 Msc
The missing prerequisite for adult relationships in all areas.
40 euro
"We delight in the beauty of the butterfly,
but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty.” Maya Angelou
but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty.” Maya Angelou
The imaginal cells of the caterpillar hold all the potential for the future, but initially they act separately, before combining as one to create something incredible, something so different from their previous existence that it seems magical.
These particular cells are so totally different from the caterpillar cells that the immune system thinks they are enemies and tries to get rid of them. But these new cells continue to appear, more and more of them! Pretty soon, the caterpillar’s immune system cannot destroy them fast enough and more of the imaginal cells survive. And then an amazing thing happens:
The imaginal cells start to clump together into friendly little groups, all resonating at the same frequency, passing information from one to another. Then, the clumps of imaginal cells start to cluster together inside the chrysalis until at some point, the entire long string of imaginal cells suddenly realizes all together that it is something different from the caterpillar. Something new! Something wonderful!
And in that realization is the shout of the birth of the butterfly.
A great way to organize a butterfly... And a great inspiration for how we, men and women together, can co-create a totally different world, one never before seen in the evolution of humanity.
These particular cells are so totally different from the caterpillar cells that the immune system thinks they are enemies and tries to get rid of them. But these new cells continue to appear, more and more of them! Pretty soon, the caterpillar’s immune system cannot destroy them fast enough and more of the imaginal cells survive. And then an amazing thing happens:
The imaginal cells start to clump together into friendly little groups, all resonating at the same frequency, passing information from one to another. Then, the clumps of imaginal cells start to cluster together inside the chrysalis until at some point, the entire long string of imaginal cells suddenly realizes all together that it is something different from the caterpillar. Something new! Something wonderful!
And in that realization is the shout of the birth of the butterfly.
A great way to organize a butterfly... And a great inspiration for how we, men and women together, can co-create a totally different world, one never before seen in the evolution of humanity.
It's this transformational process “The Great Inner Re-Set”
invites you to participate in.
invites you to participate in.
"We delight in the beauty of the butterfly,
but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty.” Maya Angelou
but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty.” Maya Angelou
The imaginal cells of the caterpillar hold all the potential for the future, but initially they act separately, before combining as one to create something incredible, something so different from their previous existence that it seems magical.
These particular cells are so totally different from the caterpillar cells that the immune system thinks they are enemies and tries to get rid of them. But these new cells continue to appear, more and more of them! Pretty soon, the caterpillar’s immune system cannot destroy them fast enough and more of the imaginal cells survive. And then an amazing thing happens:
The imaginal cells start to clump together into friendly little groups, all resonating at the same frequency, passing information from one to another. Then, the clumps of imaginal cells start to cluster together inside the chrysalis until at some point, the entire long string of imaginal cells suddenly realizes all together that it is something different from the caterpillar. Something new! Something wonderful!
And in that realization is the shout of the birth of the butterfly.
A great way to organize a butterfly... And a great inspiration for how we, men and women together, can co-create a totally different world, one never before seen in the evolution of humanity.
These particular cells are so totally different from the caterpillar cells that the immune system thinks they are enemies and tries to get rid of them. But these new cells continue to appear, more and more of them! Pretty soon, the caterpillar’s immune system cannot destroy them fast enough and more of the imaginal cells survive. And then an amazing thing happens:
The imaginal cells start to clump together into friendly little groups, all resonating at the same frequency, passing information from one to another. Then, the clumps of imaginal cells start to cluster together inside the chrysalis until at some point, the entire long string of imaginal cells suddenly realizes all together that it is something different from the caterpillar. Something new! Something wonderful!
And in that realization is the shout of the birth of the butterfly.
A great way to organize a butterfly... And a great inspiration for how we, men and women together, can co-create a totally different world, one never before seen in the evolution of humanity.
It's this transformational process “The Great Inner Re-Set”
invites you to participate in.
invites you to participate in.
Our team
Helena Lovendal
Facilitator and therapist
Senior psychotherapist, Sexual Grounding Therapy® Head of Education, trainer and therapist. Specialist trainer and supervisor for professionals in the field of intimate relationship and gender relations in the UK, Scandinavia, Russia, and mainland Europe. Originator of ‘Ways of Woman’ inner leadership programs for women and ‘Obsidian - Path with Heart’ , nature based teaching and retreats, and is an associate member of ‘Wisdom Weavers of the World’ and ‘Wilderness Guides Council’. Original co-founder of The Centre For Gender Psychology & Creative Couple Work (1996-2010), and Rites for Girls facilitator training ( 2017 - ). Co-author of ‘Sex, Love and the Dangers of Intimacy – a Guide to Passionate Relationships when the “Honeymoon” is over’, (2002)
She is passionate about re-connecting men and women to their natural power and beauty and their innate potentials for living wholehearted and passionate lives, enjoying loving and deeply fulfilling lives and relationships. She lives close to nature in the deep south of France and believes the future we seek lies in seeking to restore a spiritual balance through authentic connection to all of life and nature.
She is passionate about re-connecting men and women to their natural power and beauty and their innate potentials for living wholehearted and passionate lives, enjoying loving and deeply fulfilling lives and relationships. She lives close to nature in the deep south of France and believes the future we seek lies in seeking to restore a spiritual balance through authentic connection to all of life and nature.
Ingo Vauk
Facilitator and therapist
Professional Sexual Grounding Therapy® therapist, with a background in Gestalt and family therapy. His current interests are strongly influenced by therapies and findings of neurobiology and trauma therapy.
In his private practice there is an emphasis, next to the work with individuals, on relational work with couples and families.
Leads groups and trainings for men. Runs programs to assist blended or step families, with children of different biological parents. Trainer at Zist Zentrum (Munich, Germany). Conducts groups and trainings in UK, Germany, France and Russia. Humour is an integral part of his approach to life. Happy husband and father of two young adult children.
In his private practice there is an emphasis, next to the work with individuals, on relational work with couples and families.
Leads groups and trainings for men. Runs programs to assist blended or step families, with children of different biological parents. Trainer at Zist Zentrum (Munich, Germany). Conducts groups and trainings in UK, Germany, France and Russia. Humour is an integral part of his approach to life. Happy husband and father of two young adult children.
Angelina Shevchenko
Organizer
Body and family therapist. Certified therapist in the Rebalancing method. Currently inspired by spiritual therapy and early trauma therapy. Organizes personal development trainings and professional trainings for therapists in Russia. Works individually and with groups in Russia and France.
"My passion is to help people get back into deep contact with themselves, spiritual world, and nature. To protect life, increase love in this world and create a wonderful ground for future generations."
"My passion is to help people get back into deep contact with themselves, spiritual world, and nature. To protect life, increase love in this world and create a wonderful ground for future generations."
Our team
Helena Lovendal
Facilitator and therapist
Senior psychotherapist, Sexual Grounding Therapy® Head of Education, trainer and therapist. Specialist trainer and supervisor for professionals in the field of intimate relationship and gender relations in the UK, Scandinavia, Russia, and mainland Europe. Originator of ‘Ways of Woman’ inner leadership programs for women and ‘Obsidian - Path with Heart’ , nature based teaching and retreats, and is an associate member of ‘Wisdom Weavers of the World’ and ‘Wilderness Guides Council’. Original co-founder of The Centre For Gender Psychology & Creative Couple Work (1996-2010), and Rites for Girls facilitator training ( 2017 - ). Co-author of ‘Sex, Love and the Dangers of Intimacy – a Guide to Passionate Relationships when the “Honeymoon” is over’, (2002)
She is passionate about re-connecting men and women to their natural power and beauty and their innate potentials for living wholehearted and passionate lives, enjoying loving and deeply fulfilling lives and relationships. She lives close to nature in the deep south of France and believes the future we seek lies in seeking to restore a spiritual balance through authentic connection to all of life and nature.
She is passionate about re-connecting men and women to their natural power and beauty and their innate potentials for living wholehearted and passionate lives, enjoying loving and deeply fulfilling lives and relationships. She lives close to nature in the deep south of France and believes the future we seek lies in seeking to restore a spiritual balance through authentic connection to all of life and nature.
Ingo Vauk
Facilitator and therapist
Professional Sexual Grounding Therapy® therapist, with a background in Gestalt and family therapy. His current interests are strongly influenced by therapies and findings of neurobiology and trauma therapy.
In his private practice there is an emphasis, next to the work with individuals, on relational work with couples and families.
Leads groups and trainings for men. Runs programs to assist blended or step families, with children of different biological parents. Trainer at Zist Zentrum (Munich, Germany). Conducts groups and trainings in UK, Germany, France and Russia. Humour is an integral part of his approach to life. Happy husband and father of two young adult children.
In his private practice there is an emphasis, next to the work with individuals, on relational work with couples and families.
Leads groups and trainings for men. Runs programs to assist blended or step families, with children of different biological parents. Trainer at Zist Zentrum (Munich, Germany). Conducts groups and trainings in UK, Germany, France and Russia. Humour is an integral part of his approach to life. Happy husband and father of two young adult children.
Angelina Shevchenko
Organizer
Body and family therapist. Certified therapist in the Rebalancing method. Currently inspired by spiritual therapy and early trauma therapy. Organizes personal development trainings and professional trainings for therapists in Russia. Works individually and with groups in Russia and France.
"My passion is to help people get back into deep contact with themselves, spiritual world, and nature. To protect life, increase love in this world and create a wonderful ground for future generations."
"My passion is to help people get back into deep contact with themselves, spiritual world, and nature. To protect life, increase love in this world and create a wonderful ground for future generations."
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